How to stop caring about a person who doesn't care about you??
Last Updated: 18/01/2019 at 12:00AM
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Jan 18th, 2019 12:00AM
Well, the good thing is that you have realized that the other person does not care about you. Do you feel you deserve such people in your life or would need such people? No, right? Well if you have just broken up and the wound is fresh, I would say the first thing is to try to distract yourself from the thoughts about the other person. Distraction could be doing daily activities, spending time with other people, friends, family etc. Second thing is to be more compassionate towards yourself i.e start loving yourself. How would you do that? Start indulging in activities that make you happy. Find a hobby for yourself, something you always wanted to do. Enroll yourself to different classes. This will help you come close to your inner self and know what you really value, also it will bring back happiness.
Jan 17th, 2019 11:31AM
It's simple! They don't care about you is the main reason why you musn't care about them too. It may be difficult to do so but we must try. You must try to keep yourself busy by doing things you would like doing, like meeting up with good friends, spending time with parents and siblings, going for a walk, going for shopping, going for a vacation and all. Try to keep yourself involved in other things so as to not think about that person. You need to help yourself first to be able to be helped by other too. We are available here and you can speak to me whenever you feel like here.
Jan 17th, 2019 04:52PM
Glenn Cajetan Nunes
Only a heart full of love, care and concern is able to love and care for another. A caring, loving heart is an open heart and is vulnerable. AND THIS HEART WILL HURT when the other person does not reciprocate or share the same feeling with you or even rejects you. All of us at some point in our life feel this pain - YOU ARE NOT ALONE IN THIS. Stay with the pain, do not run away from it – this pain is a reminder of a loving heart within. GIVEN TIME - a loving heart, will find another worthy heart to love. BUT if you run away from the pain – you may close your heart. A closed heart, cannot love or care or experience the beautiful things in life. Time heals and new beginnings unfold – have courage and take care.